Homeward bound, I had a pleasure of a 5:00 a.m. boarding one of the American airways serviced to the U.S. via Narita, Japan. It seemed to be a no complaint flight judging by experience I had on the way to Bangkok. I did not expect anything different on this one.
Well, I was a bit surprise.
Things were going smooth from BKK to NRT on an airbus craft. Five minutes into an old Boeing 747 I was informed by the captain it was going to be a bumpy ride. When I flied I always chose the aisle seat to be able to get out often for the restroom. My seat was five rows from the back of business section. The captain said he was going to put the seat belt sign on for about three hours until it was clear of hurdles.
A conformist I am, I was sitting tight in my seat and of course with seat belt on. At regular situation I would also locked my seat belt no matter the captain has asked or not, just because I hate to be waken up by a flight attendance during the turbulence. I’ve seen some passengers from behind my seat making their visits to the restroom in front of us getting ready for a long sit still.
Then when things got quiet down I realized I should make a similar visit too. Unlocked my belt and walked up to that restroom behind business class, there was coming a well aged lady attendant making a jester and words, "Sir, you should go back to your seat". “I need the restroom,” I said. “I know,” she exchanged with a tone of authority. “But the seat belt sign is on.”
Afraid to be called a non-conformist, I turned back to my seat and fasten the belt holding my necessity until a future opportunity late in the flight. My necessity was not an urgent one anyhow.
To my astonishment the same lady came back in a few minutes with a piece of white paper, a letter size, in her hand. She pulled on a curtain to separate the two classes in traveling on airplane, they’re called the zones, and tucked it on. I could see writing in fine ink only that they are in English and Japanese. The wording I could not dole out but was understandable when a lady passenger of an Indian look turned back when she read the sign.
I had no other idea in interpreting the flight attendant act but to remind myself that standard does not always come in single. Not only I should not go to the restroom while the seat belt sign is on, but also I should not use the restroom in the frontal class when I was in a behind class. Not even when my seat was just a few feet away from it and many others passengers in my class have used it.
The puzzle came to me that was I being objected to as a non conformist, or myself was objectionable. It was such a silly question.
For a long time I sat still in my seat while many peoples got up and went to that restroom behind business class section after an announcement from the captain again that the seat belt sign was going to be on most of the time, but passengers could go to the restroom if they made it quick. The consolation came too late, I think, because it was exactly the same idea I was rejected when I got up and walked a short distance to the business class restroom, to make it quick.
To ease my puzzlement I pulled out my camera and took a picture of the white sign on the curtain separating business and economy classes, hopefully to get more details out of the copy for I did not dare to go near that curtain again.
Pretty soon there was an announcement for my section that the ladies could use the restroom in the back of business class section. It was also understandable considered that area was frequent by a team of female attendants.
Finally I decided to get up and walk to the back of the plane when the seat belt sign was not on. A bit surprise one more time when I found one available restroom’s door was broken and wide open. No wonder many people went to the restroom in business class because the necessity relief was in limited supply.
Through the flight I watched a team of lady flight attendants, most of them looked over fifty, working hard and full of efforts. They were trying to make a long flight smooth. I used to see other crews, mostly Asian and younger, did without a sign of struggle. I began to admire these ladies professionalism and took the matter to myself that a sad incident happen because I was at best just too naive .
I tried to enjoy the rest of a flight where movie screen was one large size on the wall for everyone to share, unlike a standard small screen in front of each seat for a passenger to choose the program they like. No matter what my food tray in front of me was crooked and not leveled, plus my earphone were broken twice.
I did not have any complaint for the rest of the flight until we landed at JFK. The usual communication from the captain while the plane was taxiing to its parking spot to remind passenger not to unlock their seat belts before the sign is off. When the sign did go off I was standing ready to disembark the plane. The guy behind me try to push me to walk further to the front and stand waiting in business class section, the one that became almost a forbidden land to me.
All of a sudden, an unexpected announcement came on by the captain. “Sorry folks, you have to go back to your seat." It sounded like he was joking but he was not, "we park in a wrong spot.” “Please go back to your seat. We are going to be towed back out to a right spot.” It was like an anti-climax when everybody was rushing to the exit doors and had to pull back.
But I guest all airline passenger are the conformists, otherwise we would be reading a next day headline news, “Passenger fall off the plane trying to park at JFK”.